Why do we have desires, emotions and attachments?
more...The temples of Khajuraho are India’s unique gift to the world. They express love in its most unique form. Khajuraho Temples are the most graphic, erotic and sensuous Indian sculptures, the world has ever known. They are famous for their erotic carvings. Khajuraho Temples are standing testimonials of the glorious past of India.
more...Do you think marriage is a bondage?
more...Parvati and shiva’s marriage is a happy and full of blissful companionship.
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more...Nature has made the two genders of male and female different from one another. Their physical differences are evident, but they are different mentally too; they think differently. But one thing is common to them for sure, and that is that they cannot stay away from one another. Nothing can separate them, not even their multiple differences. A boy and a girl are apart only at the toddler stage, but once the hormone glands become active, nothing can stop them from coming together. Men can’t live without women or women without men. The truth is that nature has created these differences for a purpose. As the saying goes: Opposites will always attract.
more...The mind has strange ways of misleading and miscalculating things – and then suffering because of it. Although everyone wants to be happy, yet everyone does all the things which create the reasons for more and more unhappiness. It is very important to understand one thing: that one cannot live in peace if one is in bondage. If a person is bound in physical chains then that is a physical bondage that is very visible, but when the chains are invisible and subtle, then it is more difficult to overcome them. In the Hindi language the word for animal is ‘pashu’; the root of the word ‘pashu’ is ‘pash’ which means rope. Hence the meaning of ‘pashu’ is one who
more...What do you want O mind. What are you looking for? If you have a little clarity the answer will be right in front of your eyes
more...Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another, or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that ‘It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person’s character.’
more...Blaming your partner for your unhappiness and other problems is futile. It is difficult to see our own shortcomings, yet quite easy to see someone else’s. What we do not realize is that what we do not like about the people closest to us, really is what we do not like or accept about ourselves. If we do not currently have a partner, then mirroring occurs with other players in our lives. It could be with our children, roommates, or co-workers. The more intimate the relationship, the more powerful the mirroring.
more...People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.
Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear..
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more...It is the parents who define the word ’success’ to their child, through their reaction. How you respond to your child’s attempts in any task will define the word ’success’ for him and eventually determine the spirit with which he will lead the rest of his life. If you consider losing in a contest a failure and not a learning ground, then your child is surely going to measure his success in terms of losing and winning. And this is what mostly parents do. Instead of celebrating the attempt of the child, they focus entirely on the outcome. What could be an opportunity to encourage and make the child learn from his mistakes, becomes a session of criticism and disappointment.
Such an attitude of parents disturbs a child’s balance.
Pressurizing children to perform, academically or in sports or in any talent, is a big no. Set realistic expectations from your child without making success or failure the deciding factor of your relationship with him. Create a loving atmosphere at home. Try to spend some relaxing moments with your child everyday by reading books or playing games or cracking jokes.
Most important is to give freedom to express to your child. Let him express his emotions, his fears. Talking his heart out to you will relieve your child. And with this kind of open communication, you’ll know how you can be of help to your child. Give your child, the time and guidance to handle changes in life. Assure him, it is alright to feel low sometimes but at the same time one has to move on. Acceptance and assurance of parents is the biggest encouragement to the child.
Speak to any father, he complains about his children; speak to any husband or any wife, they have complaints for each other; as long as they are being diplomatic, they will keep up a very sound face, a beaming smile and a false story to explain their happiness.
You have to be a complete person to become an embodiment of love. And then you will attract people. Then you don’t have to run for the people’s attention. Now you are doing everything to get attention – someone should notice your dress, your way of talking, everything.
Till about the age of 2, parents are in complete control of the child. They can put him to sleep at a time it suits them, make him wear what they want, take him out to places they like, and can distract him from his demands. But one fine day, they hear a two-letter word from their child’s mouth – ‘NO!’ And this two-letter word declares the beginning of a war between the parent and the child.
The parent feels how could a little child defy his authority, and the child feels how can he deny me my right to freedom. The parent and the child then try to assert their power with parents thrusting, forcing their choices on the child and the child becoming headstrong not to follow what parents tell him to do. The outcome is a more stubborn, rebellious child who is so easily labeled as ‘bad’.
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